When my lupus flare progressed so rapidly that I was bedbound for months, I bid my time until I was able to join the living. There were so many things I wanted to do “once I got better.” While over the years my conditions improved, my body never fully recovered. I became a spectator in …
“How are you?” This is probably my most dreaded question. After five years of living with lupus, I really don’t have a good answer. Not one that is expected of me anyways. I really just want to say the truth and answer “absolutely shitty” and be done with it. After all, how does one …
Our whole life is guided by expectations. Whether concretely layed out or not, we all have some vague idea of what we want to do, who we want to be with, what our family might look like, what our vacation will turn out to be, and so on. Our expectations are adjusted on a daily …
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